Sometimes, I get very frustrated with people when they feel such deep self-pity for themselves and refused to go out, work hard and stand up again. There are so many opportunities out there if one just work hard for it.
For example, a friend wanted to start a food business and was lamenting and whining. I asked him why doesn't he find finance or a restaurant loan because there are companies out there specialised in this. As you know, we need to eat all the time and hence, going into the food business is definitely a lucrative one. He kept saying he will not be qualified. I am going to give the link to him and force him to put in more effort to give it a go.
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