I think this is one of the thing that most of us women failed to do. We normally dilly-dally and try to beat around the bush when something bothers us. I have seen many bloggers mumbling and rambling without making sense. Why not just hit it direct, make it clear and get whatever that bothers you off your chest?
Just say what you mean and then, when you have said it, mean what you say. I.e. carry out whatever you want to do. Don't just rant without making much impact. Hit.